When I became severely ill in 2009, I quietly exited the world. When I could no longer attend events, people forgot about me. Holidays and birthdays came and went, and no one sent me greetings. Special celebrations would be held for special occasions, and my invitation never came.
This year, there seems to have been a shift in the world. Suddenly, people are remembering when my birthday is. I received several birthday cards this year.
And then this December, I am receiving Christmas cards. Usually my mail during this time of year is slim. I get a card from one or two relatives. Occasionally someone remembers me and addresses a card to my parents as “Mr. & Mrs. & Family”.
But this year, I have received seasonal greetings from quite a few people. I actually have a “stack” of cards. This seems so foreign to me. I had to dig through my stationery box to find holiday greeting cards. As each card arrives in my mailbox, I then slowly begin the process of writing a thank you note for the person’s kindness.
(I say slowly, because the muscles in my hand fatigue quickly. Writing just a short message takes a tremendous toll on my hand and causes quite a bit of pain. I can only write out one card a day and then need to let my hand rest for a day or two.)
I feel so blessed and honored so many people have remembered me this year. Thank you for your kindness.
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